This is a subject that a lot of women steer clear of, because let’s face it… it isn’t going to sound like the sexy, pleasing partners we want to be or be seen as….
First off, NOT every woman likes to suck dick. Cock. Whatever your word of choice. Some do it strictly out of service. Because their partner requires it. Because they want to please. Because they are afraid their partner might stray otherwise..
Why don’t they like it? I don’t know. Why do some people like chocolate and others don’t? My guess is that it has to do with how they were raised… how they think about sex…. maybe lack of experience…Fear…shame ?
Perhaps their partner doesn’t taste good? Not all semen tastes the same. Men– one word. Diet. ( What you eat ) It matters.
And then there is the double standard. Lots of men don’t like to eat pussy… but they still want their blow jobs.
I married such a man. He never went down on me. During the two years that we dated, it didn’t really bother me. I noticed, sure.. but other things were good. But after we were married, I did question him about it. He basically told me that the idea repulsed him. He made me feel dirty, and not in a good way.
This continued on, and my resentment grew. I can’t tell you how long it went on… but I can tell you that one day I told him that if he was “on strike” then so was I.
The woman who loves blow jobs shut down for business.
He went on to sleep with pretty much anyone who looked his way. Was this shut down a part of it. Maybe. Probably. Who knows?
Do I regret it? Well, there is a mixed bag of emotions. I regret marrying him. There’s the real answer.
I can’t say that I have much experience receiving oral. I don’t. But I will say that it has been more than twenty years since any man brought me to orgasm with his mouth.
Does this bother me somewhere in my mind? Sure it does.
Is it technique or my own fears about my body that get in the way? Likely both.
We as women are always worried about cleanliness and smell. We have all kinds of products to clean a self cleaning organ. How ridiculous is that?
You don’t see products to freshen up a dick..
I don’t know the answer to the issue. I just know that it is something that deserves a conversation.
Frankly men, if you can’t stomach the smell or taste of your woman, you need to get her to a doctor. If it’s REALLY so repulsive to you…. I kind of have to wonder why you even want to stick your dick in it?
And if it’s just awkward… uncomfortable… you don’t know what you’re doing…. Let me tell you that MOST men don’t know what they’re doing. ( Men, don’t write me and tell me how you’re ALL THAT. If you are, your woman will tell me. But in my limited experience, BIG talk equals BIG disappointment so please see below )
Be your woman’s lover. Research. Experiment. Try to please her like she pleases you.
Because if you don’t, in MY opinion… you just plain SUCK. and not in a good way.
- A revision of an old post.