Now one of the things that surprises and humors me about dating in my late 40s, is the number of propositions I get from 20 something year old men.
I hesitate to say men really, because at that age quite honestly, most are still boys !
I have on my profile ( well, I have deleted it… But when I did have one ) that I was not comfortable with anyone under 40. However, this never seems to deter.
It is funny how many have older women fantasies.
I wonder how much of the reverse is happening?
I’ll be honest, the stamina and lack of erection difficulty seems appealing. However, I still remember the days of sex as a 20-year-old… Lots of jackhammer pounding going on… Not so much in terms of satisfaction.
I will also be honest and say that it has been far too long since I have had sex. I’m hungry for touch.
This guy had a shot of himself ( presumably) from the backside, and I have to admit, he was looking nice!
My reality, is that I will never be getting naked with someone half my age.
The insecure girl inside me thinks maybe they think I’m desperate? The sad older woman will jump at a hot young guy.
I am sure there are some that think like this…
I have a girl in my office in her late 20s , who made a comment about being bothered by men her age liking women of mine.
She said she couldn’t understand… I pretty much made an excuse to walk away… But in my head I was thinking that the answer is simple. She may be younger. She may have the better body. Absolutely positively hands-down I guarantee that I am better in bed.
That may sound like I’m bragging… But really it’s acknowledging the fact that practice makes perfect 😀
All I know is that it’s flattering… And even entertaining. But it’s not “filling”
I need my good sex to come with a man with something real to say